Thursday, February 19, 2009

The First Steps in Breaking the Ceiling of Acheivement

The First Steps in Breaking the Ceiling of Achievement
By Spencer Combs

Every healthy person has a desire to be more, do more and have more in their lives. And for every one of those people, there is a different level of what that may look like. How it feels to be more, do more, or have more varies as much as there are people in the world. How is it though that we can see some go to great heights by destroying or going beyond the “glass ceiling” that so many others cannot seem to get past? How do you break that ceiling of achievement? How do we get beyond the limitations that feel so real to you? If you are reading this, my vision is that you are interested in going further for yourself or you looking to assist others in doing the same as a Coach or Mentor.

Allow me to propose two critical factors that will set energy in motion for breaking that “glass ceiling” of achievement.
1. Raise the floor of your standards
2. Focus beyond the ceiling into the skies of possibilities

Let’s look at number one, raise the floor of your standards. Before we will ever grow beyond where we are, there must first come a decision that I will no longer accept the status quo. Life may be ok, but it is not what we would consider an extraordinary life. At the M-Powering Event we share three levels of accountability and this is level one. Raising your standards and not accepting less is our absolute, bottom line necessity for starters. “Ceiling breakers” are those that do not settle with just what they are given. Top Athletes have minimum standards. Highly productive sales organizations have minimum standards. Highly respected corporations have minimum standards. If there is to be a breakthrough that must occur for you or your business, a minimum standard (i.e. the floor) must be raised.


Take a look around you. Are there not individuals that you have said to yourself, “if they can do it, I can do it”? Sure there are. The only thing that makes them any different is their mindset. Often our attendees will hear me say that “there is nothing new under the sun”. This is a Biblical reference from book of Ecclesiastes. There are no new secrets to success. The first thing we must do is accept our role at a higher identity and raise the floor of our standards to match that identity. Step up and BE the individual that you need to be and don’t settle for anything less!

Number two is just as critical as the first, focus beyond the ceiling into the skies of possibilities. When we fixate our minds eye on barriers, they seem to get stronger. Our minds have a very keen way of holding back energy if there is any pain associated with making a breakthrough. The simple remedy to having that energy flow and follow through is to concentrate the focus beyond the barrier. There must be a compelling vision beyond the barrier. Think of the numbers of young children who were raised in impoverished areas. How many of them stayed right there and fell into the same footsteps of those before them? How many of them raised their standards AND knew that there was a world of possibilities beyond their current situation? The first group takes on the role of the victim, the second group takes on the role of the visionary. The first group focuses on what limitations have been placed on them, the second group focuses on the realm of possibilities beyond their present situation.

If there is to be a breakthrough in your glass ceiling, you must become a visionary. What do you really want? With no boundary, what would you do? Where would you go? Who would you become? Why are these things important to you? If you will take the time and answer these questions, you will have begun to connect with a force inside of you that may have been dormant for too long. Take the time and focus beyond the ceiling and become clear on what those possibilities are for you.

Once these two initial steps have been taken, you will have begun making a breakthrough. I also need to remind you that this is an ongoing process. We never really reach the plateau where we stop growing. If we do, we begin to decay instead. Our lives should always be moving in the forward direction. Be that healthy grower, stop settling and … Start Moving Forward.

Spencer Combs
www.spencercombs.com

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Your FREE M-Powering Moment

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4 Pillars to Productivity

Just thought I would share this on the blog....

Keep well and ... Keep Moving Forward!

Spencer

Thursday, January 29, 2009

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"It's not what we don't know that stops us, it is what we DO know that we don't do"



- Spencer Combs



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Monday, January 5, 2009

Is it a Full Moon or Something?

By Spencer Combs

Last week my wife went into work during those few days between Christmas and New Years. She shared with me that there was something weird going on. “It just seems like everyone was rude today…like everyone has an attitude or something” she told me. Now if you know my wife, she works for a pediatric dentistry and is the appointment coordinator, she is one of the kindest people to walk the planet. I could tell from her tone and physiology that she was disturbed by the behavior. One lady even hung up on her! The audacity! There must be a full moon or something, right? The funny thing is, I received a call from a close friend of mine who is a sales rep for UPS with a similar story today. He shared the ridiculous attitudes by not only the consumers but also some of his co-workers. There must certainly be something going on… No? I’m not sure if you have experienced anything similar but here is my take on the whole situation.

The Holiday season is to blame. How?, you may ask. Easy. They get pushed to the limit with their schedules, throwing routines out of whack. Their secure, daily routines get thrown off. Many families are still paying the financial price for their holiday. For most people, their diet has been thrown off by sporadic snacking. For others, their daily physical activity has been hindered by enjoyment of “relaxation”. I think by now you get the point. Every aspect of their lives is turned on end to create the holiday experience they feel like they “should have”. Then suddenly, life gets back to normal. These individuals carry the stress of the holiday into their everyday experiences, thus making the smallest things become big things. Their immune system is lower, so sickness is more rampant (add to that the climate changes in some areas).

So what can we do about it? If you are one of those people that feel like you are in the “funk”. Then the best advice I can give is for you to become aware of your physical needs by taking care of yourself first. Then become aware of your focus. What are you focusing on and how are you interpreting it? Start asking yourself “what outcome do I really want out of this?” Don’t get bogged down with the semantics, focus on the results.

If you are one of the fortunate ones that get to deal with someone like that, my suggestion is be the agent of change in that person’s life. Many times just a smile can absolutely make someone’s day. Haven’t you been in a store walking around, in your own world, and someone smile or make a comment that just pulled you out of your emotional pit? I know I have. I can recall several occasions where I would be thinking heavily about a subject and have someone exchange a “hello” with me. For a brief moment I was being acknowledged. I existed. Life was bigger than my current situation. I make it a point now to look people in the eye as they pass me in a parking lot or in a store and smile or say hello. It is actually harder than it sounds. There are many that just pass me by and will not look up. Some will even look away just to avoid making any connection at all. Truthfully there is nothing you can do to change someone else’s attitude. However, I can go through my day and control my own attitude and I have found my life is much better that way. The people around you can be sour, but you do not have to be. You can choose to smile anyway. You can choose to find solutions not the problems. You can have the “holiday cheer” all year round. Why save it for just that portion of the year? Why let others determine your level of happiness? Smile, 2009 has begun. Today is here. This is your only real asset that is common among us all. Make what you want of it… full moon or not.

Spencer Combs
http://www.spencercombs.com

Monday, October 27, 2008

Getting unstuck article from CNN.com

This is an article that I found from CNN.com. The direct link is http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/worklife/08/01/wlb.life.coaches/

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Spencer Combs
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By A. Pawlowski CNN



(CNN) -- "Where do you see yourself in five or 10 years?"

Seeking serenity or direction in your life? The growing number of life coaches want to help.

It's one of those questions many job-seekers dread during an interview, but it can be daunting to answer on a personal level as well. Amid all your responsibilities, activities and projects, it's sometimes hard to see the big picture and easy to become overwhelmed or feel like you're lacking direction.
That's where a life coach can come in.
"If you are frustrated with an aspect of your life, not sure how to stop making the same choices you keep making or just want to have more happiness, peace of mind and passion -- life coaching can do that for you," says Rhonda Britten, founder of the Fearless Living Institute.
Life coaches can specialize in areas like relationships, careers or personal growth. They promise to motivate, offer support when clients need a boost in confidence and help them decide which direction to take. Quiz: Are you off balance? »
"In a perfect world, everyone could figure this out for him or herself, but we live in such a complicated time ... that most of us need all the help we can get," says life coach Libby Gill.
A big part of the process is figuring out where you are in life and where you want to be, but for many people, being asked to set personal goals is akin to being told to eat your broccoli.
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Elizabeth Scott, life coach and a stress management expert for About.com, says she can help them get unstuck.
"Often, people need someone to help them take the dreams they have in their heads -- the visions of what they want to do next with their lives -- and do the work to make them a reality," she explains.
Growing ranks
Life coaches are part of a growing profession. The International Coach Federation (ICF) says it has more than 12,000 members worldwide, or double the amount just five years ago. In a survey commissioned by the ICF last year, 16 percent said their coaching specialty is "life vision and enhancement," the third most popular area behind executive and leadership coaching.
The survey also found that women make up more than half the clientele of professional coaches.
Britten, who's been a life coach for 12 years and was featured on the reality TV series "Starting Over," says a typical client is age 35 to 55, is "at a crossroads, must make a decision and is sick of choosing out of safety and fear."
Don't expect a therapy session when you meet with a life coach. While some have a background in counseling, the process is different.
"In simplistic terms, a therapist is [there] to heal the wounds of the past, and a life coach supports you in moving your life forward," Britten says. "My rule of thumb: If a client tries to convince me of someone else's wrongdoing more than three times, I know they are not ready to move forward, and I suggest therapy might be a more appropriate option."
Scott says another big difference is that therapists try to help people with problems, while coaches help already healthy people improve their lives.
It's also important to remember that life coaches are not regulated. There are numerous coach training programs across the country, but no one national standard for certification. Associations like the International Coach Federation have their own credentialing programs, but there is no requirement for anyone who wants to practice life coaching to take part.
Mental health experts say life coaches can help improve someone's life, provided they're qualified.
"Learning skills to handle stress, adversities and other life challenges -- regardless of the source -- is a positive step for any person," says psychologist Dr. David Shern, president and CEO of the nonprofit group Mental Health America.
He urges anyone interested in going to a life coach to research the profession thoroughly, and he says that life coaches are probably not the best solution for people with serious mental health problems like depression.
"In addition, only a fraction of people can afford this type of personalized care," Shern says.
Finding a coach
Just like hiring any professional, you should do some homework and shop around before choosing a life coach. Since it's someone you'll be working with closely, and probably revealing a lot of personal information to, it's key to look for someone with whom you feel at ease.
"As with any relationship, it's important for coach and client to 'click' interpersonally. You need to be comfortable with your coach's personality and communication style," Scott says.
The International Coach Federation recommends talking to three prospective candidates and requesting two or more references from each. It advises asking the coaches lots of questions, including how much experience they have, how many people they've worked with and what specific successes they've had in helping their clients.
"The best way to find out which coach is best for you is to ask for a sample session and then use that time to get coached on a real problem, not to ask questions about coaching," Britten says. "Trust yourself. If the coach isn't supporting you right off the bat, say 'thank you' and move on," she adds.

Working with a coach
Once you've found a life coach, be prepared to open your mind and your wallet. Britten says an hour-long session with one can cost from $40 to more than $500. (She charges $400 for a 50-minute session.)
Many coaches require a three-month commitment to start, and you're likely to talk with them once a week, in person or by phone.
"Remember that you get out of the coaching experience what you put into it, so hire a coach when you're ready to make changes, and devote your attention to doing the work," Scott advises.
"A coach can be a powerful asset, but they will work in a partnership with you, and you determine where you want that partnership to go."